The Depths Of Shallowness

Drowning, Drowning in Cynicism; Drunk, Drunk with Sentimentality; Down, Down with Love; Dunked, Dunked in Life. Desperate Discourse. Disposable Desires. Dusky Dreams. Delirium. Dignity. Despair. Doubt. Duty. Dewy Days. Divine Divide. Dump Everything that Bothers in The Depths of Defiance. 《我的快樂時代》唱爛 才領悟代價多高昂 不能滿足不敢停站 然後怎樣 All Rights Reserved ©Angeline Ang

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Tempestuous. Intense. Proud. Intellectual. Easily Bored. Consummate Performer. Very Chinese. Very Charming. Fair. Pale. Long, Curly, Black Hair. BA(Hons). Literature. Philosophy. Japanese. Law. Dense in Relationships. Denser in All Else. Brooding. Sceptical. Condescending. Daria Morgendorffer meets Kitiara Uth Matar meets Ally McBeal. Always dreamy, always cynical, always elusive. Struggling writer, artist and student, in that order please.

Monday, June 28, 2010

We Should Meet Like This

Very girlishly Japanese and stylishly attractive goes the thought bubble, as I admire my doppelganger in the mirror. I had decided to dress prettily today + parade my new Louis Vuitton Monogram Idylle Speedy30 Bandouliere (bought all the way from Paris, bless a dear friend). Well, we never know who I might meet on the train. Especially since we have established that he stays in the east and takes the mrt to work; never mind that we have never bumped into each other before. In any case, with a jaunt in my step and a flick of my hair, I was off. There is still the lunch hour, the corridors and the random meetings.

I didn’t see him on the train, which was to be expected. But my heart skipped a beat when someone his build strolled past me on the escalator at City Hall. I think it’s him. But he couldn’t hear me with music blasting into his ears so I tapped him on the arm at the traffic junction.

Hey. Where did you come from.

So we chatted. And he lit up a cigarette.

I love going to work even more now.

Sunday, June 27, 2010

On Writing (Again)

Putting it as a cover story on national paper is one thing. Calling her the local equivalent of Carrie Bradshaw, to the extent of claiming she is the pioneer model for single women is really taking the cake. Call me cynical but hey, the guy got married and once he divorced, he had flown back to Singapore with the intent of finding two former girlfriends. One couldn’t be contacted, while the other was easy, being a celebrity of some sorts. Yes, so he was open about his intent. So he kept asking you to be his girl and you kept rejecting. But still. BUT STILL. He got married, and it wasn’t you. You were second and possibly third choice by sheer elimination. So what if you knew him first in school and had gone on a date. It didn’t amount to anything and you didn’t end up a couple. Is it selling out; is it caving in; is it really this pure and innocent love beyond just mutual companionship and wanting comforting familiarity? Is he on a rebound?

It is not quite Definitely, Maybe premise (I totally love that movie), so I am naturally suspicious and doubtful. More for my sake and for single girls everywhere. Her story is the modern parable of how hope springs eternal and it’s simply too bubblegummy for me. For better or worse, it encourages women to hang on to/dream on about the romantic ideal: of first loves and its eventual return; the wait that will not be in vain; and that yes, he will be unhappy about his marriage if it’s not to you, it will fail and he will come back. True loves always do; they turn back for you, and they reunite with you. But what if they don’t and you end up throwing your life away? I’m practical that way. So much as I am occasionally and oddly overwhelmed by nostalgia for a past love, the key word is past, and I’m way past the stage I would actually extend a tentative tentacle of mock friendship to test the waters of reconciliation.

I’m not sure if it’s a natural process of growing in years, but suddenly I have a broader definition of physical attractiveness. Yes, he is still very tall and tanned but significantly older too and less hirsute on the top pate. The word that comes to mind is suave whenever I see him. And I’m seeing more of him lately by sheer coincidence (without mediation yet!). I think I started paying more attention to who he is when he asked to sit with me and my other colleague for lunch one day and we started chatting. And shortly after that, I realise I find people who pass wry remarks in a sardonic fashion, complete with lazy drawl and a remarkably careless air, irresistible and terribly sexy. Of course it didn’t help that we bumped into each other at the lift lobby and had another opportunity to chat. Or that something very trivial happened and he wrote me a thank you note, saying “you rock” (which era is he from anyway). Or the delicious way he fumbled over my name when he couldn’t quite decide to angeline or angie me (!). Or how I stormed into the room 10 minutes late and he waylaid to say hi and that I was in Group X (same as his) when I was in the group next to his. Oh, completely charming with a light accent.

There is no ring. But you never know these days, right.

Meanwhile, I guess the everyday is replete with potential.

I am guessing it is also dangerous territory when I start prattling/writing like this.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

记得

成功换了工作,重新投入市区的怀抱,已有两个月。

没有刻意,没有可以不可,只是今早突然想起,我们,好久不见。

再度相隔不过一个马路,或许,这一次,真的是尽了。连偶然,都难。

一个人的生活,没有思念,习惯就OK。